Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Looking Back At UPEACE

I feel it is necessary to back track a little bit and describe some of my experience with UPEACE. Much of the program was similar to the experience I had had in the past. This time however, my point of view had changed, my role had changed, and my group had changed. I went primarily as a participant but also as an intern. I enjoyed my role in assisting Barbara with things very much. She is an amazing mentor and person. I enjoyed the experiences that were repeated because the information was reinforced and it was interesting to observe a different group. It was an exercise to not spoil activities that I knew the solutions to, and it was an exercise to practice effective facilitation. At times I failed, and at times I succeeded. I observed in myself that I was better at one on one encounters than with the entire group, but I received much practice in both. I enjoyed staying at Canal Grande again because the staff is very much like a family. I feel at home at this hotel, and would gladly welcome the employees into my home in the states.
Some things that were new included a different coffee plantation. At this one we were able to plant coffee, which I enjoyed very much. They told us that they would keep our plants together and if we returned in three years we could drink our coffee. J. Something else I found intriguing was that they said they offered homestays. I am on the hunt for my next international travel to include work experience- which brings me to my next fantastic addition. This time we visited a private school, and a young man gave us the tour in English. At this school I planted about 30 or more trees that were simply seeds that had sprouted, and 2 trees that were about a foot and a half to 2 feet tall already. I would say that this was one of the highlights of my trip. At this school (which I wrote down the information for) they have opportunity for volunteer work for extended periods of time. How amazing would that be!?
Perhaps later the topic of “La Carpio” will receive a blog entry of its own. For now though, I must place it here. La Carpio is a place I would very much like to return to in the future. Through a connection between the University for Peace and The Foundation in La Carpio (which is headed by an amazing angelic woman by the name of Gale) we were able to hear the history of the neighborhood, it’s people, and receive a tour. La Carpio is a piece of land about one square mile in size that is divided into 9 sectors. Due to drugs, crime, and danger in general people are not usually permitted to move freely between the different sectors. Gale is the exception. Walking with Gale made me want to cry. It was powerful. The people passing by not only had respect for her, but they had love. She knew everyone, and had a magical way with the children. They hugged her and she asked them about their days. She knew their families, their lives. She had support for them, and respected their feelings. I could see through her actions and her words how much she cared for them. While normally this would have been a very dangerous experience (35,000 people living in this square mile), with Gale- it was safe. For the most part, these families are Nicaraguans, though their children are now Costa Rican. Gale told me to watch for people’s reactions when I explained that I had spent a day in La Carpio, and I have been. Eyes open briefly in disbelief and then return to normal. Within the first two sentences of conversation I am told how dangerous it is. This is a moment where I long deeply for increased Spanish vocabulary. In the Spanish world I lack the ability to have profound conversation. I feel for the people in La Carpio. It is amazing how kind the people that we met were/are. Willing to share their lives with us, willing to invite us into their homes and introduce us to their families- including a new born baby. They have hard lives- yet the smile, and it is pure. I met an artist that had lost the use of his legs and a great deal of his upper body when he was a child. In august his work will appear in a large exhibit. He regret to us was that his work was unfinished otherwise he would have like to share it with us.
The children in La Carpio appeared to be happy. Though both they and their parents had ripped clothing, and many of the children had caps on their teeth…. They were warm. They have homes. They laughed and smiled and played. I noted that they played in the same water that the dishes were done in, but they are unaware of the fact that children elsewhere would not be permitted to do this. Though they were very observant that we were Gringos (a term for North Americans), the youth of La Carpio do not entirely feel the pain from the difference in quality of life. If they have never known it, how could they? I don’t mean the material items. Those are things that the delinquents are able to steal.. and sell. I mean things such as the feeling of accomplishment after obtaining advanced education… These people are getting by. Often people are satisfied if they have the knowledge that is necessary to get by. Outside of La Carpio however? I am unsure. I know that in my life I desire more… always more. I had a brief discussion about the politics in Costa Rica and how it relates to La Carpio. There is currently a new wave of youth in the neighborhood that will be able to vote in the coming election. Stupidly, I asked what was being done to help prepare this youth for informed decision making. Hah- If only the resources were available. I was answered with the fact that this was not possible because there were more basic/ more important things that must be taught first. Unfortunately this group of youth will go on being easily influenced because critical thinking and informed questioning is currently unattainable. . . and I was assured that they will vote. This is one thing that the people of Costa Rica do DO.
In the coming weeks I will be taking a class on Latin American Politics. It is my hope to advance these thoughts and gain a deeper understanding of the situations in in Costa Rica and Central America. If this happens- I will surely revisit the topic.
Anyway---- While in La Carpio we also picked up trash, and built bunk beds for a family that lives there. I was with the small group that went to the house for final construction and this in itself was an experience. I have some photos and when I have time I will share them. It was an amazing experience to see their life. To kick the soccer ball lying in what could be interpreted as a yard. Though this yard contained no grass- only gravel and broken glass. While the construction was taking place, the children’s’ mom left and returned with a two liter of Coke which she proceeded to pour into cups for us to drink. IMAGINE… a family appearing to have nothing -and certainly they surely lack money, going out of their way to spend money in order to be a good host… It was unnecessary…. Or was it? Certainly we did not need to drink Coke. Though in a world where one party wants to help another without an heir of superiority- without a lowering of one’s self to the others level but rather to help as equals in the human family… this act of love is completely necessary, and it was appreciated.
 Wow- the concept I just brought up is very complicated and I hope that you all understand my point of view. If not we can certainly discuss it later because it is very important and I would not want to be misunderstood. It is a concept I have discussed in detail with a friend from UMASS.
Finally- when the bed was completed, the kids jumped and laughed and smiled. My life became just a smidge brighter. This was an experience I will not forget. If only I could show it through my eyes.
Alas, I have typed a novel… but I feel now I can continue with my more recent experiences. Phew!